Showing posts with label Words. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Words. Show all posts

Wednesday, November 11, 2009

Interview with Lynda McDaniel, author of Words At Work









Lynda McDaniel, author of Words At Work: Powerful business writing delivers increased sales, improved results, and even a promotion or two. A veteran writing coach shows you how. was kind enough to answer a few questions for me. Read on, her answers are enlightening.


Please tell us a little bit about yourself.

I grew up in Cleveland, Ohio. There are lots of jokes about that city, but I had a good time growing up there. I received a great education and fell in love with baseball there. I’ve lived lots of places since—from the mountains of North Carolina to Washington, D.C. and the San Francisco Bay Area—but I’m proud to be from Cleveland.

I didn’t start writing professionally until I was 25 years old. A lot of people think they have to write when they’re kids or in high school, that it’s too late for them to start now. But that’s just not true. That’s one of the reasons I wrote Words at Work. My students and clients kept telling me that my story—from getting a late start to facing some hurdles along the way—inspired them that they can write too. And they do.

My writing career began in the most unlikely of places—just a speck on a map of the North Carolina mountains—but it was ripe with opportunity for me. That’s where I met a school director who asked if I’d like to learn public relations. To be honest, I should have answered, “What’s that?” Instead, I said, “Sure,” and took to it like ink to newsprint. Once I saw my first published article, I was hooked. I’ve never stopped writing. I’ve gone on to write five books and hundreds of magazine and newspaper articles for publications such as Southern Living, Country Living, Yoga Journal, and washingtonpost.com.



How/why did you decide to write a book about writing for work?

I heard a student tell another student as they left my writing class, “They sure don’t teach this in school!” That meant the world to me. I knew I had tapped into something special, and I wanted to share that with a wider audience. I love taking all the things I’ve learned during my writing and writing coaching career—sometimes the hard way—to make other people’s lives easier. I wrote Words at Work for everyone who wants to write well, and especially for those who thought they couldn’t. They can.


What do you like to read for pleasure?

I’m a voracious reader of novels. I just finished Michael Connelly’s Scarecrow and Henning Mankell’s Before the Frost. I recently read a non-fiction book entitled Blue Ocean Strategy: How to create uncontested market space and make the competition irrelevant. It’s a fascinating book about thinking beyond what’s traditional and creating something new from the unfulfilled needs of the “old.” Another fantastic non-fiction book I’m currently reading is How We Decide by Jonah Lehrer. Not only is the information compelling, but his writing style is brilliant.


With Twitter and texting becoming ever more popular, do you think there are times when it is appropriate to conform to the adopted "shorthand" that limited characters has required? Or do you think we just need to find the correct words and send as many texts or Tweets needed to convey our message? OR... do we need to write "tighter" - clear and concise?

There’s a time and place for everything. Even shorthand writing, which I call our “jeans” writing. More on that in a minute. Just be careful. With so much e-communication today, we rarely meet the people who write us, but that doesn't stop us from forming a picture of them using the only clues we have—their words. We need to pick the right look depending on the situation. Similar to Casual Fridays at work, you’ll choose your “jeans” words when writing friends or acquaintances (tweets and texts). Most of your writing will be your basic work attire, which leaves a good, solid impression. And for those sales proposals and articles, blogs and Web copy (or novels, memoirs, and essays)? That’s when you don your fanciest glad rags. Have fun. Be creative.


What books do you suggest to become a better communicator through writing?

Brenda Ueland, author of If You Want to Write: A Book about Art, Independence and Spirit. More than any other book, this book inspired me to both honor my own creativity and learn how to improve upon it. Brenda is amazing. She lived earlier in the 20th century, but I use present tense because she still seems so alive. Her words jump off the page. I could hear her voice in my head as I wrote Words at Work—and I hope I succeeded in sharing the same kind of inspiration and encouragement with my readers. Also check out Bird by Bird by Anne Lamott, The Artist’s Way by Julia Cameron, and the classic, On Writing Well by William Zinsser. And, of course, Words at Work.

Thank you so much, Lynda!

Tuesday, November 25, 2008

Books, games and holiday travel.

Thanksgiving is two days away and those who are heading out to see family are more likely to be traveling by ground this year. If you, and your kids, are roadtripping on Thursday, why not unplug the gadgets and enjoy some old-fashioned travel games. And when you need some quiet, have the older kids read to themselves, or read aloud to the littler ones.

The Licence Plate (or Roadside Sign) Game - Starting with the letter "A", have your kids find all the letters of the alphabet, in order, by searching license plates or signs.

The All 50 States Game - Look for license plates from all 50 United States. Ask if anyone knows anything interesting about the States you see.

The Progressive Story Game - One person begins to tell a story, and then each person gets to add a sentence. You never know how the story will end.

The Word Association Game - We do this all the time. Someone says a word, and then everyone else says a word the word before reminds them of - this can get pretty silly.

I'm sure there are other games to play, but these are the ones we've used over the years. Please feel free to share your ideas in the comments.

Friday, October 3, 2008

There is only one "u" in nuclear

One of my pet peeves is the pronunciation of the word nuclear as nuculer. President Bush says nuculer, as does Governor Sarah Palin. It makes my teeth hurt when I hear it.

I looked the word up at dictionary.com. This is what I found.

—Pronunciation note In pronouncing nuclear, the second and third syllables are most commonly said as /-kliər/ Pronunciation Key - Show Spelled Pronunciation[-klee-er] Pronunciation Key - Show IPA Pronunciation, a sequence of sounds that directly reflects the spelled sequence ‑cle·ar. In recent years, a somewhat controversial pronunciation has come to public attention, with these two final syllables said as /-kyələr/[-kyuh-ler]. Since /-kliər/[-klee-er], the common pronunciation of ‑cle·ar, might also be represented, broadly, as /-kləyər/[-kluh-yer], the /-kyələr/[-kyuh-ler] pronunciation can be seen as coming from a process of metathesis, in which the /l/[l] and the /y/[y] change places. The resulting pronunciation is reinforced by analogy with such words as molecular, particular, and muscular, and although it occurs with some frequency among highly educated speakers, including scientists, professors, and government officials, it is disapproved of by many.

So, I suppose it's acceptable, but I still don't like it.

Tuesday, May 20, 2008

Something to ponder...

"By necessity every book must have at least one flaw; a misprint, a missing page, one imperfection....the Rabbis...point out that even in the holiest of books, the scroll resting inside the Ark, the Name of Names is inscribed in code so that no one might say it out loud, and chance to pronounce properly the Word that once divided the waters from the waters and the day from the night.... As it is, some books, nearly perfect, are known to become transparent when opened under the influence of the proper constellation, when the full Moon rests in place. Then it is not uncommon for a man to become lost in a single letter, or to hear a voice rise up from the silent page; and then only one imperfect letter, one missing page, can bring him back to the land where a book, once opened, may still be closed, can permit him to pull up the covers around his head and smile once before he falls asleep."
-Midrashim, by Howard Schwarts

Friday, February 1, 2008

The Past Comes Back



















My father's mother died when he was two years old. He has no working memory of her. My grandfather never really talked about her.

But... my grandma left a few pages about her life, written while she was in the hospital. It's not much, just a little information about her life - how much she loved my grandpa, loved my dad and a bit about her growing up years.

My dad recently found Grandma's diary in the bottom of my grandpa's tool box. My grandpa's second wife didn't want any reminders of my grandma in her house, so Grandpa did what he had to do. The diary covers the year 1942 and the very beginning of 1943. I asked my mom to take a photo of it for me.

I can't wait to visit my folks this summer and get a chance to read my grandma's words. I am tickled that there is some piece of her left, and that writing was important to her, too.

Tuesday, January 22, 2008

Que Sera Sera

"When I was just a little girl
I asked my mother, what will I be"


My littlest boy loves to sing. He even sings to ask questions. He'll say "Mummy, can I have some MILK?!" and the word milk turns into an operatic crescendo. It's pretty damned funny.

He comes by his love of singing honestly. I was the same way at his age. I loved music! I sang all the time, so much so that I was told to stop, many times, by many people. I truly thought (when I was five) I'd grow up to be a famous singer.

Well, come to find out, I have terrible stage fright. The moment I realize someone is listening, my throat tightens up and my voice cracks. It's ridiculous, but it is what it is.

I also loved to read and write when I was a kid. I always had my nose stuck in a book. And as I've mentioned here before, I kept a journal for a few years. I tried my hand at song lyrics, but without playing an instrument, they were mostly poems that would never come to musical expression.

I didn't expect to grow up and become a writer, but it seems that's what I've done. My English teachers would not be surprised, as they all mentioned I should pursue writing.

My muse has been whispering to me for a very long time, and I kept ignoring her and pushing her away. I was too busy raising children. As soon as she found out I had time to myself again, she made herself known and refused to be put off any longer.

I know now what I want to be when I grow up. What did you want to grow up to be?

Tuesday, September 25, 2007

Yankee or Dixie

Take The Yankee or Dixie Quiz.

I scored...

47% (Yankee). Barely into the Yankee category.

I'd love to know what y'all scored.

And on a related note, when you read dialogue spelled coloquially, do you hear it in your head, or do you translate to your own dialect?

Southern Drawl, Dixie Sprawl?

I left the North East when I was 22. I've lived in the Mid West for 16 years now. When I arrived in Minnesota, I had a terrible time making friends. The moment I said more than two sentences, I got a funny look and people would say "You're from back East, aren't you?", usually with a curl to their lip and a wrinkled nose.

I expediently adopted a generic southern accent, what one of my friends refers to as "military south". For some unknown reason, a southern accent was much more acceptable than an eastern one. Luckily I was raised by an Illinois mom and a Maine dad, so shifting dialects was fairly simple for me.

Imagine my delight to read this article, Hey Y'all, Is Southern Drawl Spreading? I have always been intrigued with accents and dialects. I tend to slip into whatever accent I'm hearing from the people around me, and I thought everyone else could do it, too. Evidently, there is a name for people like me, bidialectal. (Read the article, it explains everything.)

I chalk up the fact that people are tending toward a southern drawl way of speaking to the huge fan base Country music has acquired in the last 17 or so years. You can't listen to Country music and interviews with the people who sing Country songs without thinking "aw shucks, ma'am".

The Southern Drawl is one of the gentlest, most un-assuming dialects in America. It brings to mind Sweet Tea, Mint Juleps and a slower paced way of life. I picked it up as a method of self preservation, but I'm not sure it's such a bad thing.

Saturday, September 22, 2007

Spelling Bee


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Wednesday, September 19, 2007

Chasing down ideas...

I've got a few ideas for queries spinning in my head today. I'm trying to get them to gel, so I'm not posting anything heavy today.

My favorite word for today...

ser·en·dip·i·ty /ˌsɛrənˈdɪpɪti/ Pronunciation Key - Show Spelled Pronunciation[ser-uhn-dip-i-tee] Pronunciation Key - Show IPA Pronunciation
–noun 1. an aptitude for making desirable discoveries by accident.
2. good fortune; luck: the serendipity of getting the first job she applied for.


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[Origin: 1754; Serendip + -ity; Horace Walpole so named a faculty possessed by the heroes of a fairy tale called The Three Princes of Serendip]

—Related forms
ser·en·dip·it·er, ser·en·dip·i·tist, ser·en·dip·per, noun
Dictionary.com Unabridged (v 1.1)
Based on the Random House Unabridged Dictionary, © Random House, Inc. 2006.

Tuesday, September 18, 2007

WTF??

My 5 year old said "What the fu...?" to me a few days ago. No "ck" pronunciation was heard. I asked him not to say that and he asked me why. I explained to him that "fu" was just another way of saying fuck, and that's not a word most people expect to hear out of a little kid's mouth. Again, he asked, "Why?" and I found myself repeating what mothers everywhere have always said. "Because it's a bad word."

Cameron wanted to know why it's a bad word and what fuck means. Well, that got me to thinking, what exactly is the definition of this highly charged word, and is a word ever truly "bad" unto itself, or is it the particular usage that gives a word an "ugly" connotation? I typed "fuck" into an online dictionary and found this and then googled the word and found this. Neither link leads to obscene stories or pictures.

As I understand it, the simplest definition is "to have intercourse with", but the word fuck has been considered an ugly word for a very long time. People typically use it when they have run out of patience and other words to make their point. It is one of those "catch all" words that means nothing and everything, depending on usage, context and inflection.

I don't believe there are any bad words. I do, however, think that words have power. I have lost friends by using the wrong words at the wrong time. I have hurt people deeply by throwing words at them. Most people who know me recognize that I am terribly angry if I don't use any "swear" words at all in a confrontation. Words have the power of influence, to cause wars, prevent wars, tear people down or lift them up.

I'm still not sure what to tell my son regarding why fuck is a bad word. I certainly don't want to tell him that for all intents and purposes it means sex. I consider sex to be something sacred and amazing. I do not want to have him associate something negative with something that someday will be incredibly positive.

If (WHEN!) I have to talk with him about this again, I think I'll try to focus more on choosing different words for self-expression. There are so many words to choose from, why limit ourselves to the easy ones?

Sunday, July 29, 2007

Is that a word?

The most wonderful thing about the English language is it's constantly evolving. Words that didn't exist even 5 years ago are now official (as in, found in Webster's).

Take for example, EVOO. Rachael Ray is credited with creating this word. For those readers who aren't "foodies", EVOO is Extra Virgin Olive Oil. There are actual criteria for what slang words eventually become real words.

According to Merriam-Webster Online, a word gets into the dictionary by tracking the usage of a word.

"To decide which words to include in the dictionary and to determine what they mean, Merriam-Webster editors study the language as it's used. They carefully monitor which words people use most often and how they use them."

"Change and variation are as natural in language as they are in other areas of human life and Merriam-Webster reference works must reflect that fact. By relying on citational evidence, we hope to keep our publications grounded in the details of current usage so they can calmly and dispassionately offer information about modern English."

I get my love of words from my dad. He is constantly blending words together to create entirely new meanings. He created the word "splitamaulitis" about 20 years ago, after a weekend of splitting cord wood for the winter. Splitting-maul-itis. He didn't care whether anyone else ever used it, he was just tickled to have made it up. The following Autumn, he heard a DJ on the radio use the word. Dad had a huge grin on his face as he told us all about it.

So, have fun with words. Combine some to convey exactly what you mean. Make some up. If you use them in your everyday conversations, they may end up in Merriam-Webster's Dictionary someday.